January is all about new beginnings. It’s also Teen Driving Awareness Month. For teens just starting their driving journey, it’s the perfect time to reflect on what type of driver they want to become. It’s also a good time for parents to consider how they will guide their teens throughout this journey. With that in mind, here are five ways parents can guide their teens as they become new drivers.
1. Lead by example.
Kids learn so much by just observing the habits and actions of the adults in their lives. By the time a teen is ready to take the wheel, they’ve spent years being driven around by adults and are bound to have picked up some habits along the way, for better or for worse. Make sure you’re exhibiting the behavior you’d like your teen to emulate behind the wheel. Follow traffic laws, keep your cool, and avoid distractions (especially texting). Show your teen the type of defensive driver you want them to be by being one yourself.
2. Start with the basics.
Even though your teen has been observing you drive over the years, you can’t assume they’ll know what to do when it’s time to get behind the wheel themselves. Start with the basics. Make sure they have a solid understanding of the rules of the road before giving them the keys. That means studying the driver’s manual and practicing driving maneuvers in a controlled environment (like an empty parking lot). Do not move on to more difficult scenarios until you and your teen are comfortable in the controlled environment.
3. Set clear expectations.
It’s important to be clear from the beginning what exactly you expect from your teen in regards to driving. If you have a parenting partner, discuss things like curfew, passenger restrictions, and vehicle usage together to make sure you’re on the same page before bringing it to your teen driver. Ask your teen driver what their expectations are as well. Having an open and honest conversation about driving will help everyone be on the same page and understand the rules and consequences set in place.
4. Make them practice.
Just because your teen has earned their permit or license doesn’t mean they’re experts. The more practice your teen gets, the more comfortable they’ll become. Of course, it’s vital that they’re practicing the correct things. Take them on a variety of drives in different weather conditions and times of day. If they’re used to driving only one route, one time of day, in one season, they’re not as prepared as they could be.
5. Be patient.
Easier said than done, we know, but this is so important. Driving can be very scary for new drivers, and a frustrated or unsupportive adult in the car is no help to a teen. Be patient with your teen and offer encouragement and support. Remember, you were once a new driver, too. If you find yourself losing patience, ask your teen to pull over in a safe place. It’s totally understandable if you need a minute to collect yourself, or if you’ve simply reached your limit for the day. If you’re going to have a reaction, it’s best to do so when your teen is not operating the vehicle.
By following these simple yet important steps, you can help your teen driver develop the skills and habits they need to stay safe on the road. Remember, patience and positive reinforcement go a long way. As your teen gains experience, you can continue to be a supportive presence, offering guidance and encouragement.
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